Beyond Neurotype: Attachment, Identity & Becoming Secure in Christ

Group for Self-Study or 1-on-1 or Marriage Coaching
The book, Landscapes of the Soul, is available from many book sellers.  Here is an Amazon link if you prefer them.
The dates for Summer of 2026.  Men's class times are 9p EDT.  Women's class time are 8p EDT.
5/19, 5/26, 6/9, 6/23, 7/7, 7/21

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Introduction: Our Correspondence with Dr. Wilder

I asked Dr. Wilder about Neurodiversity & Attachment, since not a lot of research is out there on autism and attachment. Most research was on neurotypical individuals. My question was about adding a layer of attachment to neurodiversity.

 

Response:

Consider that attachment styles are acquired through experience. 

Dismissives set their attachment signal volume too low

Distracted set their attachment signal volume too high

Distracted have their attachment signals going out of range at times

So, attachment signal volume is adjustable to some extent. But, suppose that the basic system amplification factor is already out of the normal range - then some ND responses may be attachment styles that develop out of range rather than a different phenomenon. 

 

Just a thought to consider over tea! 

 

Jim

Rev. Jim Wilder, Ph.D.

 

INTRODUCTION: ATTACHMENT 101

Expect about 3.5 hours for the introductory materials below.

Before Session 1

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Attachment Theory Basics with Dr. Jesse Gill

Dr. Jesse Gill, author of Face to Face: Seven Keys to a Secure Marriage

We learn more each day about Attachment Science and the numerous ways that it can be applied to every aspect of marriage, family, and faith.  Check out our books, blog, and vlog for ideas that can help you.  

Jesse Gill, Psy.D.

Dr. Gill’s Interviews

From Family of Origin to NeuroDiverse Couple & Family

 

Basics of Attachment

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/introduction-to-attachment-and-relationships/id1579715646?i=1000563269575

Attachment & Marriage and Attachment Ruptures, Attachment Pain & Repair

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dr-gill-attachment-and-attachment-injuries-in-nd-marriages/id1579715646?i=1000565347368

 

NeuroDiversity and Attachment: Interview with Authors Cyd & Geoff Holsclaw and ND Coach Barbara Grant

Neurodiversity & Attachment Barb & Holsclaws

https://www.youtube.com/live/XV06lUXY2ZA

 

Some differences in identity & Attachment with Dr. Wilder

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mFGVX1Dwp1k

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Fb2SxAV_eE