Unmasking: Growing into your True Self

Group for Self-Study or 1-on-1 or Marriage Coaching
You will need to purchase Life Passages of Men and The Solution of Choice.
For the men's class, Dan will send a different zoom link on the morning of.

Spring 2026 9:00 pm Eastern on Thursdays

January 22
February 5 & 19
March 5 & 19
April 9 & 23
May 7

Sessions

Introduction

Introduction Materials from the Workbook: Laying the Foundation
Watch Rare Leadership Lessons 1 to 4

Session 1

Watch Session 1 Video

Session 1
Rest of Rare Leadership Videos (5-8)
Solution of Choice Chapters 1-4

Enlightenment Shift
Skewed Models
Truth
Choice

Workbook Pages Introduction & Lesson 1

Session 2

Watch: Our Interview with Dr. Jim Wilder: Development Basics Part 1 & Part 2

Read:

Solution of Choice 5, 6 & 7

Power

Tolerance

Hesed Solution

Life Passages of Men: Introduction & Chapter 1 Becoming a Boy

Workbook: Lesson 2

Session 3

Watch: Dan & Stephanie- Attachment- What Should Have Happened

Read:

Passages of Men Chapters 2-4

A boy and his mother

A boy and his father

The man who was never a boy

Extra material: Maturity from the heart Jesus Gave You

Workbook: Lesson 3

Session 4

Watch: Video Dan & Stephanie on Maturity Gaps

Read:

Life Passages of Men: Chapters 5-7

Becoming a Man

Three Killer Myths

How Sons Become Men

Workbook: Lesson 4

Session 5

Watch: Dan & Stephanie: Roles of Men

Read:

Life Passages of Men: Chapters 8-10

Life-Giving Manly Roles

Becoming a father

Fathers and their children

Workbook: Lesson 5

Session 6

Watch: Our Discussion with Dr. Jim Wilder on Fear Bonds vs. Joy Bonds

Listen: Podcast: Just the Guys: Mad, Meltdowns & Mopey

Read:

Life Passages of Men: chapters 11-12

Father’s World

Single and Childless Men as Fathers

Workbook: Lesson 6

Session 7

Watch: Two Interviews with Dr. Karl Lehman on Unresolved Trauma. Part 1 & Part 2

Read:

Life Passages of Men: chapters 13-15

Becoming an Elder

The Elder and his sons

The Elder and his daughters

Workbook: Lesson 7

Session 8

Watch: Dan & Stephanie: Intentional Growth Is Possible! You are Defined by Your Neurotype, Your Choices or Your Childhood. Who Defines You?

Read:

Life Passages of Men: Chapter 17-16

Elders and the Church

Death of an Elder

Workbook: Lesson 8

Appendix

Wanna go deeper? Hear from some of the contributing authors? Or authors mentioned in the text or endorsements?

Shame- healing in community

Curt Thompson 1 and 2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qIAq85DjYYA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LiQIc2tBRgo

Dr. Jim Wilder Resource "Changing Motivation from Fear to Love"